Kilkea Castle: Ireland’s Enchanted Luxury Escape One Hour from Dublin

Ireland has long been a destination of mythology and romance — a land where lush green hills meet centuries-old stone fortresses and fairytales feel just within reach. At Kilkea Castle, guests are invited to live inside one of those fairytales — with every modern luxury included.

Dating back to 1180, Kilkea Castle is among Ireland’s oldest continuously inhabited castles. Once the historic home of the Fitzgerald family, the grand estate endured a period of hardship following the 2009 financial crisis — only to experience a remarkable renaissance. Thanks to a meticulous $35-million restoration, the castle has returned to its full splendor, now offering LGBTQ+ travelers a 5-star retreat infused with heritage, beauty, and refined indulgence.

Just one hour from Dublin, the 180-acre estate features enchanting woodlands, manicured rose gardens, a flowing river, and a world-class golf course — a storybook setting designed for both romantic escapes and unforgettable celebrations.

A Modern Royal Revival

Boston-based entrepreneurs Jay and Christy Cashman purchased Kilkea Castle in 2012, ushering in a bold new era that honors the property’s medieval roots while elevating its luxury appeal.

Jay Cashman — founder of The Cashman Companies — brings a background in transformative engineering and development, while Christy Cashman’s award-winning career in film, philanthropy, and the arts inspires the castle’s cultural programming and heartfelt hospitality. Their vision? To craft an Irish sanctuary where elegance, creativity, and wellness thrive.

Regal Rooms & Refined Design

The castle’s interior blends Gothic intrigue with contemporary sophistication, creating spaces that feel both majestic and warmly intimate. Guests can savor afternoon tea in the plush Drawing Room, gather for fine dining under high ceilings in the grand Dining Room, or unwind by the crackling fire inside the Castle Lounge.

With just 11 exclusive bedrooms inside the main castle — including the sweeping Fitzgerald Suite — every stay feels curated and personal. In the courtyard, the former carriage house and stables have been reimagined into 31 stylish rooms, preserving original stonework, wrought iron detailing, and timber beams.

It’s the perfect balance of old-world charm and modern comfort — ideal for couples, friend groups, or a luxe queer wedding party takeover.

Culinary Imagination, Irish Heart

Dining at Kilkea Castle celebrates the flavors of Ireland through locally sourced, seasonal ingredients:

• Restaurant 1180 – The castle’s signature fine dining experience overlooking the Rose Garden and 18th hole

• The Bistro – Casual yet elevated meals inside the golf clubhouse

• Hermione’s Restaurant – Elegant Irish cuisine with global influences

• The Keep – A cozy pub that honors Ireland’s storytelling spirit with whiskey and Guinness

• High Tea in the Drawing Room – A sparkling moment of indulgence with bubbles and delicate pastries

Whether savoring Michelin-caliber dishes or toasting the day’s adventures in the pub, guests are always surrounded by warmth, artistry, and a dash of whimsy.

Golf, Spa & All the Royal Pursuits

Kilkea Castle is home to an 18-hole, par-70 course, where the River Greese winds through emerald fairways and scenic lakes. A sleek clubhouse, driving range, and 18 three-bedroom lodges make it a paradise for groups — especially LGBTQ+ golf fans looking for a luxe getaway.

The award-winning Spa invites guests into a fully immersive thermal and hydrotherapy experience — complete with massage pools, sauna and steam cabins, and invigorating ice treatments. From detoxifying rituals to restorative body therapies, wellness here is a royal decree.

Beyond that, adventure awaits. On-site experiences include:

• Falconry

• Horseback riding

• Archery & skeet shooting

• Tennis, cycling & fishing

• River tubing & swimming

Nearby: shopping, arts, nightlife, and the rich cultural tapestry of Ireland’s countryside.

A Storybook Setting for Celebrations

Whether you’re planning a sophisticated queer wedding or a milestone event, Baronial Hall — the castle’s contemporary grand venue — accommodates up to 280 guests in cinematic fashion. From castle-view receptions to candlelit garden ceremonies, every detail is designed to spark joy (and envy on Instagram).

Where Luxury and Legacy Meet

Kilkea Castle is more than a place to sleep — it’s a portal to the past, polished for travelers who appreciate the finer things. Centuries of legend live in its walls. Today, those legends are the backdrop for modern love, queer joy, and magical memories you’ll never want to leave behind.

Ireland has no shortage of historic castles — but only one offers this level of exclusivity, romance, and heartfelt hospitality. Kilkea Castle stands ready to welcome you like royalty.